Dear Pavlin,
I am sorry if you feel that we are not trying to help you, but it doesn't help if you are mean to us too, and yes, we do want to help you, but ask that you are kind to us too. I would like to invite you to come along to one of the EHAM ATC sessions, and observe how I work as an airspace controller, hopefully you can learn something from this! You don't have to fly yourself, just drop by in the EHAM ATC mumble channel once we are online, and listen how we do it. This might help you further with your own service, and to make it more realistic too.
Also, a good thing might be to study the charts for the airport you control at, this way, you are familiar with your surroundings! I hope I have helped you further with this, and I hope that you will visit us at EHAM soon.
Greetings,
Charlie (Wecsje)
BTW: Jomo might not be the most qualified controller in FG either, and also not the most kind one, you are not the only one who doesn't like him. If you do things right with him, he will be more kind to you too.
O and PS: I also have played piano for a long while, so no need for lessons there